Easy Work vs Hard Work

This is easy work:
1 complaining
2 pretending
3 blaming
4 judging
5 resenting
6 taking
7 shouting
8 expecting
9 waiting
10 doubting
This is hard work:
1 inspiring
2 learning
3 teaching
4 trusting
5 empowering
6 sponsoring
7 committing
8 unselfishly giving
9 loving
10 nurturing